
I have grown accustomed to feeling like a lone voice in the wilderness over the past 25 years. I really don’t mind, at all. I much prefer being alone in the forest to the boardroom, anyway. However, having said that, I find that I still sometimes get frustrated, as do most iconoclastic thinkers, when others just don’t get it.
As a philosopher, I spend a great deal of time watching, studying, researching, learning and thinking. That’s what philosophers are supposed to do. But it doesn’t stop there. What good is coming to conclusions if they are not shared freely with others. Moreover, how significant is the information derived if it cannot be applied in the real world, obtaining real results? The answer? It isn’t. Therefore, the philosopher has the responsibility to share what he or she has learned but nothing can compel others to listen, much less apply. Therein lies the frustration.
What can seem so obvious to some philosophers can appear as “prophesy” to those who cannot make the connections. To be sure, there are many false prophets out there, but a few do possess the ability to make the connections between prophet and profit and predict if we go down this road or that path, this is going to be the result.
There are those who ride the waves of change and then there are those who create them. I have always preferred the latter role and frustration comes as part of the territory. Still, I have to admit to an occasional dab of smug pleasure (Hey! Nobody’ perfect. I am still working on the ego!) when something that I have been declaring for what seems like eons, suddenly comes to fruition and all those people out there who were reluctant to listen suddenly exclaim, “Aha!” The only problem is that it usually takes a tsunami of biblical proportion to get them to that point of epiphany. Very often, however, it is too late. We are, I believe, in such a time and I am feeling no joy, none at all. The enormity and tragedy of the current situation hold no joy for me. I am experiencing a plethora of feelings and emotions, but joy, sadly, is not among them.
We are experiencing a culture crash. It was inevitable and didn’t happen over night. It is not attributable to one person or factor, rather, the result of many that are interconnected but not indistinguishable. There are solutions but, whatever path we take from here, we must realize that, just as after 9/11, our world and our culture will never be the same. It is time to seek new solutions to old problems and forge a new path forward, not backtrack down the trail that led us here. A bitter pill to take is the realization that our best thinking got us here and that no problem can be solved by the same consciousness that created it, in the words of Albert Einstein. No, it is time for a new manner of thinking and that is exactly what I have been saying and teaching for the past 25 years. In fact, the slogan for Transformational Thinking, the philosophy I have been developing and sharing with others for the past quarter of a century is, “Welcome to the Thinking Age!”
The recent economic crisis is not a stand-alone nor isolated problem, as we are all learning. It is, in fact, not THE problem, merely one of many symptoms of the root cause. Identifying root cause(s) is an absolute necessity when it comes to basic problem solving. If we cannot identify and change, minimize or eliminate the root cause(s), the problem will only come back to bite us again. Unfortunately, this step is all too often omitted as we rush to solutions, the equivalent of placing a band-aid on an arterial wound. It may be perfectly applied and may even stem the bleeding temporarily but, in the end, the patient dies.
Show me one system by which we live that is problem free and I will immediately drop to my knees and convert. Virtually every system with which we deal is laden with problems that serve as anchors, preventing forward progress. So what are some of the root causes that have brought us to the brink of disaster? And, remember, we are talking about global disaster, not just the home-grown version!
I feel, at the ripening age of 63, I can speak with some first-hand authority on at least the last half of a century. I think that provides us with a suitable cushion or margin of error on both ends of the scale of experience, involvement and awareness.
Something vital has changed in our culture. What is it? Did we ever really have it? If so, how did we lose it and can we regain it again? Those are the real questions. I think I can sum in up in a single word: Connection.
Many people speak fondly of a time in America when people went to sleep without locking their doors, children were allowed to roam the neighborhood freely and without fear, and neighbors rushed to help others in need. I remember those times. They are not a part of urban myth. There was a connection people had and valued then but I think that has dissipated. As we lost touch with each other, we also distanced ourselves from the systems that we employ and they got away from us.
How many people can say today that they personally have met their president, senator, congress person, and other political representatives who are supposed to protect and serve them? How many of us know the banker who approves or disapproves the loans for which we apply towards our business or homes? How many of us depend on our computers and the Internet to attain the information we seek, rather than real people? Strange as it may seem, the increased connectivity offered through advanced technology has actually served just the opposite purpose. We have exchanged real and meaningful human connection with real people for an artificial system of connection that seems so Spartan in the area of human feelings and we are experiencing the associated ripples of that choice. And this is not a uniquely American phenomenon. It is global.
I was in a restaurant in Male, the capitol of The Republic of the Maldives, a few months ago dining alone and there was a table of ten young people to my left. What drew my attention to them was that they were all (at the same time) on their cell phones texting or talking with someone who was not there! That was a moment of incredible insight for me. They were not connecting to each other; they were too busy connecting to someone else, probably telling the person on the other end what a great time they were having connecting with their peers at the table. Artificial? I think so.
We are losing the value of what I refer to as The Human Connection rapidly and most of us do not even realize it. As we have shifted from a village mind set to a global one, we are losing sight of what it means to converse, write and share our experience, knowledge and feelings. We are losing sight of what it means to form real and close relationships with others. I think this will is having a huge deleterious impact upon the culture I have known, defended, love and revere so much.
To be sure, the Internet brings certain advantages to the table as far as forming and developing human relationships that were never available to us before. I have in mind two people with whom I have been corresponding and teaching for years via e-mails but whom I have never yet met in person. They are Sammy Jacobs Abbey of Ghana and Terrence Jackson PhD, of Columbus, Ohio. The former is a leading advocate of youth development and the latter is someone I intend to join forces with and advance the cause of Transformational Thinking. I consider both to be my brothers.
My debate is not with the technological advances, but what we are doing with them. My gripe is not with current societal tendencies, but with what we are willing to risk. Do you really want to live in a world without Human Connection? I do not. If there is one aspect of any culture that must be preserved at any cost, it is that.
I believe we will come out of the economic crash in which we currently find ourselves. But, if there has ever been a serious wake-up call to re-examine values, surely this must be it! Look beyond the economics and politics. Look within your own heart. Look at your next door neighbor. Look at the poor fellow on the street. Start making those Human Connections now. Find kindred souls and expand your perimeter of awareness and sphere of influence. There is an entire universe out there and you can connect to it. You will be glad you did.
